This post could be your Passport to Salvation!! (wait do I sound like a braggart? hope not 🙂 )
Reduce the Baggage
On the 18th Day of BlogChatterA2Z Writing Challenge, let us do some mental exercise. Let us together inhale all the possibilities and fill our lungs with the enormous potential of a healthy life and let us exhale all the toxicity of our life by slowly releasing all the pain and disturbance we have been holding on within ourselves for years.
Throughout our life, we carry a lot of baggage with ourselves, unnecessarily. The baggage of expectations, the baggage of grudges, the baggage of anger and baggage of lots of emotions, only wanting to drop it at the very end of our journey. The solution lies in not having conflicts but in resolving them as soon as one can. How long is too long and what is the dead end?
- So why not resolve all the conflicts within before we head towards our final destination.
- Take quick action on what truly matters.
- We spend more time thinking and thus create more negativities around us.
- A lot of people know what is needed to be done at that moment, but don’t do anything about it.
- While you’re caught up in what you think you cannot escape out of it.
In relationships, if you had some bad incidents, you start to distance yourself from those, once you have truly loved or appreciated. A certain mismatch of ideologies are bound to happen in any relationship but we just stop communicating and we start thinking that we no longer cherish the company of that person but the fact is we do not agree with a particular dominant thought of that person which could be just ignored in a positive manner, but we choose to move away.
Letting go of grudges helps you sleep better.
Holding onto resentment causes stress.
The problem lies in the thought process of the person and not with the person. This understanding helps you to unburden the bitterness you carry for someone once you cherished being with.
Why do we have to wait for that last moment, when the thought still keeps on knocking our subconscious mind every now and then, pointing that things would have been different if I would have handled the given situation in a certain manner, why not take a call, right now? So many ifs, buts, whys, hows just to for a silly reason which might get worked out if we speak ou once.
Kehte hai na, Baat karne se hi baat banti hai..to koshish karne mein harz kya hai janab..Baat bani to thik, nahi to shukriya, alvida aur adab.
Before life gives up on you… Take that call, unburden yourself, reduce the baggage one by one, before your final call and live as a free soul!
Much love and gratitude
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