Oscar Wilde says — Women are meant to be loved and not to be understood!! With this quote, let us discuss some interesting facts about Women.
We the Women have always been a subject of mystery. We are blamed to be complicated, not easy to understand and yes filled with too much expectations and commitments. But what it takes to really love a women even with all these predicaments?
May be a little attention, appreciation and some love!! We are the species who are continuously seeking attention from our loved ones. Reason? It gives us motivation, encouragement and may be a mood lift. When we cook something special , we seek a feedback, when we dress up we look up for some compliment, when we feel low we long for those warm hugs. It does not take a lot to really love a woman, isn’t it?
There are times when we say NO but we means yes, there are times we ask to leave or leave us alone but a part of us says, stay back, don’t go. Its like reading between the lines and that is the problem area, we get hurt easily and expect a lot from our people and they in turn find it difficult to understand how to deal with the given situation, and then SILENCE is the loudest cry which leads to endless cold war 🙂 But let me tell you something, it is very easy to mend things with us …always keep it simple!! We always want to speak, discuss things and want answers to our never ending questions and once you master the art of answering all our griefs , you are the winner. Listening is the KEY, (for all of us) we usually wait for our turn to speak rather than listening to what the person is saying and there we fail to understand the underlying problem.Remember, each woman is an individual, a unique personality , we cannot judge one woman with the behavior of another. We cannot compare, we just need to accept her the way she is, we need to treat her right and be there.
On this note, lets tune in to a lovely song released in 1996 . One of the famous song of Bryan Adams . I would like to share the lyrics with you and also the song URL as when you hear the song, I promise, you will be so mesmerized with the lyrics and the soft music. You might fall in love with your woman again!! 🙂
To understand her you gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought see every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin’ helpless in her arms
You know ya really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her that she’s the one
‘Cause she needs somebody to tell her that it’s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
Let her hold you
‘Til ya know how she needs to be touched
You’ve gotta breathe her really taste her
‘Til you can feel her in your blood
And when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know ya really love a woman
You tell her that she’s really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she’s the one
‘Cause she needs somebody to tell her that you’ll always be together
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
A little tenderness gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin’ good care of you
You really gotta love your woman, yeah
You know ya really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her that she’s the one
‘Cause she needs somebody to tell her that it’s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
Really really ever loved a woman?
Just tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
Virtual Siyahi 
Quite complex it is and men need to read the signs to be closer to a woman, understanding her emotions. Bryan Adams song is beautiful.
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Ya a little bit, but sometimes few simple gestures and making your near ones feel that they are valued is all needed indeed!!
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